Sunday, 23 February 2014

Perfect Guy

He is not perfect.
You aren't either, and 
the two of you will never be perfect.
But if he can make you laugh at least one,
causes you to think twice. 
and if he admits to being human 
and making mistakes,
hold on to him
and give him the most you can.
He isn't going to quote poetry,
he is not thinking about you every moment,
but he will give you a part of him 
that he knows you could break.
Don't hurt him.
Don't change him.
And don't expect more than he can give.
Don't analyze.
Smile when he makes you happy.
Yell when he makes you mad,
and miss him when he is not there.
Love hard when there is love to be had.
Because perfect guys don't exist.
But there's always one guy that is perfect for you.

A woman should...


  • A woman should have that one particular friend who knows all her secrets, who makes fun of her and at the same time, hold her while she cries.
  • A woman should have a huge handbag that you will find almost everything you need, in it.
  • A woman should have at least one signature dish that no one makes it better, other than she does.
  • A woman should have that one dress with gorgeous heels that she has been saving for that special date. 
  • A woman should own her own car, house or any other property that is under her name.
  • A woman should have her own savings, even if she marries the richest guy on planet earth.
  • A woman should have a set of makeup, not because she is not already beautiful but because every silverware needs to be polished every once in a while.
  • A woman should not be afraid to say ‘No’ when it is needed.
  • A woman should know how to break someones heart in the kindest way possible.
  • A woman should have limits. That includes while having cakes, ice-creams, and french fries.
  • A woman should know how to point out a friend’s mistake without ruining the friendship.
  • A woman should know how to fall in love, without losing herself.
  • A woman must speak of words that encourages others, rather than words that could tear someone down.
  • A woman should know how to give a flying kick to everyone who tries to get their hands under her blouse, without permission.
  • A woman should never leave her friends behind, when she has found a lover.
  • A woman should have a past where she has made hundreds of mistakes and still be proud of it. A past that is worth re-telling. 
  • A woman has every right to cry and cry her heart out when she feels like it. Don’t stop her.
  • A woman should know how to pick up the pieces of her broken heart and still find the will to forgive.
  • A woman should have that one song, that will be played on her wedding, a song that she listens to when she is sad, a song that she will sing, when one asks her too.
  • A woman should believe, that no matter what size she is in, she will always look good!
  • A woman should always have a Jump Start in her car, and learn how to use it. 
  • A woman should have that one romance novel that she will read over and over again.
  • A woman should have a heart strong enough to withstand the judgmental comments, yet soft enough to care for a new-born baby.
  • A woman should have a mind that dares her to dream big and achieve it.
  • A woman should know how to live alone, even though she doesn’t like it.
  • A woman must have an undying spirit to take her through the roughest night and still put on a smile the next day.
  • A woman must believe, that does not need anyone to make her happy. She is responsible for how she feels.
  • A woman is a woman, when knows she is beautiful because there is no one like her in this whole world. 
  • A woman should know how to change a car tyre, even though she might have the upper body strength of a kitten. 
  • A woman should know who to trust, who not to and why.